In Estate Planning for Same-Sex Couples, What you don’t know will hurt you!

Estate Planning for Same sex couples are unique, challenging, and can make you feel like you are entering a mine field. Partly because, same sex couples are denied 1,100 federal benefits that are recognized for heterosexual couples. Family relationships sometimes play a part depending on whether or not the relationship is accepted.

Working with an experienced team of professionals can alleviate many pitfalls, heartache, and angry feelings in the event of death of a partner. An estate planning attorney, tax accountant, and financial planner are the ideal team needed to get started.
A will is an essential estate planning tool. Without a will, you will die intestate meaning that your property will be distributed according to the interstate succession laws in your state. If you are a same sex couple, dying intestate will almost always yield an undesirable effect because interstate intestate laws rely on legal relationships of marriage and parentage which means that your partner and partner’s children will have no rights to your property. You can be prepared for a challenge to your will with the use of legal formalities that take protective actions.  No contest clauses, can be used to deter a legal challenge. Periodic updates to your Will can help to establish your wishes and intent. In some states you can petition the probate court while alive to declare your will valid. A legal professional can assist you with preparing an effective will.

A Codicil is the part of your will that will provide instruction for your final wishes. It will provide directions for your final arrangements. You can leave details on burial or cremation; embalming; caskets and urns; headstones or burial markers; your final ceremony; and paying for funeral arrangements. Often instructions for minor items like furniture, clothing, and jewelry are documented here. This could become a problem as many states limit the right to make these arrangements to the decedent’s immediate family. Your attorney will be familiar with the estate planning laws of your state to further assist you with final planning.
Providing for children takes special care where there is no guarantee that a judge will grant guardianship to the surviving partner; especially in the case where only one parent is recognized as the legal parent. If that parent dies, or becomes incapacitated, the other parent is at risk of losing all rights and contact with the child(ren). One alternative is to name the surviving partner the guardian of the child’s estate. This will permit the surviving partner to maintain contact in the event that he loses guardianship.
Probate is the court process of settling your estate. Probate is often a long and expensive process which rarely benefits the estate. State law determines who will receive your property. Unless your partner is your legal spouse or is recognized under state law, state statues do not include your partner.
Avoiding probate may be more complicated for same sex couples because they cannot take advantage of marriage laws that allow property to pass to spouses without probate. There are however estate planning tools that can be used to minimize the effect.
One strategy may be to pass property via contract law. Contract law is based on an agreement between two parties of sound mind, and of legal age. Beneficiary designations, Transfer on Death (TOD), Living Trust, Durable Power of Attorney, and Joint Ownership are all examples of legal transfer of property and or rights via contract.
1.       Beneficiary Designations can be made of insurance policies, investment such as annuities, qualified accounts (these can be tricky if you were married previously – check with an attorney), and brokerage accounts. An attorney can help you understand State Law, and your financial planner can assist you with understanding the various investment vehicles.

2.       Joint Ownership is a contract that is often used in real property. It will create an immediate transfer of property upon death to the surviving owner. Some State laws permit Joint Tenants with Rights of Survivorship (JTWROS). Check with your state regarding this option.

3.       Annuities, Qualified Accounts (IRA, ROTH, 401K, 403B, 457), deeds, and insurance policies permit transfers via beneficiary designation.

a.       The rules for inheriting an IRA or 401K plan are different for spouses and non-spouse beneficiaries. Because the IRS does not recognize same-sex partnerships, non-spouse inheritance rules will be followed.

b.      When an IRA is transferred to your partner, he/she will have to begin withdrawing required minimum distributions from the plan beginning the year after death. Until the beginning of 2010, non spouse beneficiaries had to declare it all as income when inherited and pay the applicable tax.

c.       Beginning January 1, 2010, non-spouse beneficiaries can roll the plan into an inherited IRA. They will still be required to take the minimum distributions, but are no longer subject to the upfront tax.

4.       Bank accounts, deeds, and some investment accounts can use transfer upon death (TOD) clauses so that assets immediately transfer freeing up assets that can be used to pay immediate funeral expenses after death.

5.       Trusts are key estate planning tools that are very helpful. Trust may not get around estate tax issues, but it is a private arrangement that is more difficult than a will to overturn. There are many types of trust and each has different rules. Consult with your attorney and financial planner when setting these up.

6.       Living Trust are legal vehicles that permit you to transfer assets privately to your partner naming him/her the trustee.

Insurance takes on many forms: life, accident, disability, health, automobile, home owners, renters, long term care, etc. Are you aware that your homeowners insurance does not cover your partner if his/her name is not on the deed? (Solution: Renters insurance) Lifetime Financial Group will assist you with insurance decisions, planning and analysis.

Healthcare Concerns are another aspect of your estate that same sex couples should not overlook. Healthcare directive are a vital aspect of a same sex couples estate plan because it provides clear and legal instruction to healthcare professions of your wishes without any speculation about the legality of the couple’s relationship. Without these, your partner may not have any legal authority to make decisions or even visit you while in the hospital.

1.       Healthcare Power of Attorney names a person responsible for making healthcare decisions for you in case you lose capacity. It makes your partner the preferred decision maker. Without it, the hospital might instead turn to biological family relatives.

2.       HIPPA authorization gives your partner access to your medical information and records.

3.       Durable Power of Attorney names someone to take care of your finances in case you cannot do it yourself. Note: The durable power of attorney ends once the person who granted it ends. In other words, when your partner is deceased, the durable power ends.  So it is important to name an executor of your estate to spring into action once you are deceased.

4.       Executor of Estate will execute your final wishes and settle your estate.

Estate Taxes are another matter to consider. In 2013, only estates larger than $5.25 million will pay federal estate taxes. Your state might have its own estate tax law. Check with your accountant to see what impact it will have on your estate plan. Although most people do not have to worry about estate taxes.
Heterosexual married couples can rely on the federal marriage law that permits couples to pass property to your spouse tax free. Same sex couples cannot take advantage of this law because the federal government does not recognize same sex marriage even if it is legal in their state.
Same sex couples have no rights under intestacy laws and they do not get the unlimited estate tax marital deduction which could result in a death tax of up to 50%. The surviving same sex partner will receive nothing from his/her partner upon the death without careful planning. Family resistance must be a consideration so the estate plan must be constructed to withstand any potential challenges.
A qualified tax advisor, attorney and financial advisor will help you create an estate plan that is ideal for you! It is best to get sound legal advice before making any decisions.
Keep in mind that estate planning is about what you want while you are alive – not just after you are dead. It is more than deciding who gets your stuff after you die.  

Sources:
1.       6 Estate Planning Issues for Gay and Lesbian Couples, http://www.nolo.com/legal-encyclopedia/six-key-estate-planning-issues-gay-lesbian-couples

2.       Unique Estate Planning Issues for Same Sex Couples or Unmarried Couples, Harlan S. Louis and Mary Jo Hudson

3.       Estate Planning Issues for Gay and Lesbian Couples, Jaon M. Burda, JD

4.       Estate Planning for Same Sex Couples, Joan M. Burda, http://www.americanbar.org/publications/solo_newsletter_home/estateplanning.....

5.       The Estate Planning Tips for Same-Sex Couples, http://www.investopedia.com/financial-edge/0911/top-estate-planning-tips-for-same-sewx-couples


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Carmen Coleman, MBA, CRPC™ is the owner of Lifetime Financial Group. She is a financial planner and insurance consultant. http://www.lifetimefinancialnews.com